Most Recent Episodes

Introduction:

I’m thrilled to share with you the latest episode of my podcast, "The Road to Self Love: Mastering Accountability and Overcoming Limiting Beliefs." This episode is particularly close to my heart as I had the pleasure of chatting with Karishma Gautam, an inspiring Self Love Coach and Expert. Karishma is a fierce advocate for women's empowerment, leveraging her extensive experience in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Hypnotherapy to guide women on their journey to self-love.

Meet Karishma Gautam:

Karishma is on a mission to help one million women worldwide fall in love with themselves by 2025. In our conversation, she shared invaluable insights into the importance of self-worth and the power of reframing limiting beliefs. These internal shifts, she explains, can lead to profound transformations in our lives.

The Power of Accountability and Self Reflection:

One of the key themes we explored is the role of accountability and self-reflection in overcoming subconscious patterns that hold us back. Karishma passionately discussed how taking responsibility for our actions and thoughts is crucial in breaking free from these limiting beliefs.

Practical Strategies for Improving Self-Esteem:

During our chat, Karishma shared practical strategies for improving self-esteem and embracing one's true potential. She drew from her personal stories and professional experiences to illustrate how deeply ingrained beliefs from our past can shape our present relationships and self-perception. Her tips on starting the journey towards self-love and mental reprogramming are not only insightful but also actionable.

Overcoming Limiting Beliefs:

Whether you're struggling with self-doubt, looking for ways to enhance your self-worth, or simply interested in personal growth, this episode has something for you. Karishma's wisdom and passion are incredibly motivating, and I’m sure you’ll find her insights as valuable as I did.

Tune in and Transform:

Tune in to learn how to master accountability and overcome the limiting beliefs that might be holding you back from living a more fulfilling life. I hope you find this episode as enlightening and encouraging as I did.

Thank you for being a part of the Thinker vs. Speaker community. Let's continue to grow, learn, and support each other on this journey to self-love and empowerment.

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In this week's episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with the incredibly inspiring Kandies Bailey, the powerhouse behind KB's Sweets. Our conversation was nothing short of motivational, as Kandies shared her journey through the ups and downs of entrepreneurship. From rap beefs to personal tragedies, Kandies' story is a testament to the power of resilience and the importance of pushing through adversity.

Facing the Music - Overcoming Adversity in Entrepreneurship:

Kandies Bailey’s journey into the world of sweets wasn’t a straightforward one. She began her career in hairstyling, but negative feedback nearly crushed her spirit. Instead of letting this setback define her, Kandies decided to follow her passion for baking. This decision wasn’t easy, especially with the pressure to pursue a stable, traditional career path encouraged by her baby boomer parents.

However, Kandies’ love for baking and her determination to succeed led to the creation of KB's Sweets. Her story is a powerful reminder that self-belief is crucial. Even when faced with self-doubt and negative comments, Kandies kept pushing forward, showcasing an entrepreneurial spirit that’s both admirable and inspiring.

Navigating Rap Beefs and Personal Losses:

One of the most compelling parts of our conversation was Kandies' reflection on the rap beefs that once consumed her life. These conflicts taught her valuable lessons about conflict resolution and the importance of staying focused on her goals. Additionally, Kandies spoke candidly about the personal losses she endured and how these experiences shaped her into the resilient person she is today.

These challenges didn’t just test her resolve; they also strengthened her commitment to her business and her community. Kandies’ ability to turn adversity into an opportunity for growth is a key takeaway for anyone facing similar struggles.

Balancing Family Expectations with Personal Dreams:

Kandies also shared the challenges of balancing family expectations with personal ambitions. Her parents, coming from a generation that valued job stability, often encouraged her to find traditional employment. However, Kandies knew that her passion lay elsewhere. Choosing to pursue her love for baking, despite familial pressures, was a bold move that paid off.

Her story underscores the importance of following one’s passion and the rewards that come from staying true to oneself, even when it means going against the grain.

The Sweet Taste of Success:

Today, KB's Sweets is more than just a business; it’s a symbol of perseverance and hard work. Kandies’ success is a direct result of her dedication, resilience, and unwavering belief in her abilities. Her journey is a powerful reminder that success is not a straight line but a series of ups and downs that ultimately lead to personal and professional growth.

For those of you looking to embark on your entrepreneurial journey or simply needing a dose of inspiration, Kandies Bailey’s story is sure to resonate. It’s a heartfelt reminder that no matter how tough life gets, pushing through adversity can lead to sweet, sweet success.

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Introduction:

Hey there, Thinkers! 👋 We're back with another soul-stirring episode of Thinker vs. Speaker, and this time, we're diving deep into the theme of purpose and divine timing with our special guest, Zaria (Lacy) Okorodudu.

Zaria's Journey to Entrepreneurship:

In this episode, titled "Life and the Pursuit of Purpose: Divine Timing, Submitting to and Following Your Calling," Zaria takes us on a journey through her remarkable life story. From growing up in a family of entrepreneurs to navigating the twists and turns of her own entrepreneurial path, Zaria shares the pivotal moments that shaped her journey and led her to where she is today.

Embracing Diving Timing and Following Your Calling:

We explore the power of intuition, the importance of trusting in divine timing, and the transformative impact of following your true calling. Zaria's story is one of resilience, faith, and unwavering commitment to living a life of purpose.

Exclusive Sneak Peek Into Zaria's Projects:

But that's not all! We also get an exclusive sneak peek into Zaria's upcoming docuseries, speaking tour, and book release. Get ready to be inspired as she shares the passion and vision behind these exciting projects.

Welcome to Mondays!:

Plus, we've got some big news to share! Thinker vs. Speaker is switching up its release schedule. Starting now, you can expect new episodes to drop every Monday at 11 AM. So mark your calendars and get ready to kickstart your week with thought-provoking conversations and insightful perspectives.

Conclusion:

Listen to the episode now on your favorite podcast platform, and don't forget to share your thoughts and reflections with us. We can't wait to hear from you!

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In the latest episode of Thinker vs. Speaker, Marissa the Thinker returns from an unexpected hiatus, delving into the deeply personal journey of navigating grief and loss. In this heartfelt episode titled "I'm Just Here, Trying: Navigating Grief and the Loss of My Dad," Marissa courageously shares her experience of losing her father, a beloved figure in her life and a dedicated supporter of the show.

Embracing Vulnerability and Honesty:

With raw honesty, Marissa reflects on the profound impact her father had on her life, describing him as not only a parent but also a hero, mentor, and unwavering source of support. She reminisces on their shared love for exploring ideas and engaging in spirited debates, a bond that laid the foundation for Thinker vs. Speaker.

Finding Strength in Adversity:

Amidst the overwhelming waves of grief, Marissa bravely shares her journey of grappling with emotions ranging from sorrow and anger to moments of grace and gratitude. She candidly discusses the challenges of navigating funerals, battling depression, and questioning faith, yet ultimately finding the resilience to keep moving forward.

Returning to the Show:

After months of introspection and healing, Marissa returns to the podcast with a renewed sense of purpose. She reflects on past conversations with inspiring guests like Zaria and Rashid, highlighting their resilience as entrepreneurs in St. Louis. Additionally, Marissa previews upcoming episodes featuring dynamic individuals such as Kandies Bailey of KB's Sweets and self-love expert Karishma Gautam.

A Message of Resilience and Unity:

Throughout her narrative, Marissa extends a heartfelt message of solidarity to those navigating grief and loss, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and community support. She acknowledges the difficulty of opening up during challenging times but underscores the profound connections and healing that arise from shared experiences.

Conclusion:

As Marissa concludes her poignant reflection, she reaffirms her commitment to honoring her father's memory by embracing life's challenges with courage and resilience. With gratitude for the outpouring of love and support, she embarks on a new chapter of Thinker vs. Speaker, navigating the complexities of life one day at a time.

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In a world where authenticity is currency and purpose is paramount, there are few journeys as inspiring as that of Reauanna Sledge, the culinary genius behind Show Me: Culinary. Join us on a captivating exploration of her path to entrepreneurship, as we delve into the heart of passion, authenticity, and the relentless pursuit of purpose.

Finding Purpose in the Kitchen:

For Reauanna, cooking is more than just a skill; it's a passion that ignites her soul and drives her to create culinary experiences that nourish both body and spirit. With each dish, she seeks to forge connections, inspire others, and give back to her community—a mission that resonates deeply with our shared belief in the transformative power of using our talents to serve others.

Authenticity in Branding:

In our conversation, we confront the age-old dilemma of balancing client expectations with personal authenticity in the realm of entrepreneurship. Together, we explore the courage it takes to stay true to oneself amidst the ever-changing landscape of business, and the profound impact of leading with authenticity in building a brand that stands the test of time.

Navigating Pride and Vulnerability:

As two individuals hailing from backgrounds where asking for help is often seen as a sign of weakness, we share our struggles with pride and vulnerability on the entrepreneurial journey. Through candid reflection and shared experiences, we highlight the importance of humility, resilience, and the power of seeking support in times of need.

Lessons in Leadership:

Drawing from our own experiences, we redefine leadership as a force for empathy, kindness, and inclusivity. From fostering supportive relationships to learning from the mistakes of the past, we explore the essential qualities of good leadership and the profound impact it can have on team morale and organizational success.

Conclusion:

As we conclude our conversation, one thing becomes abundantly clear: the path to purpose-driven entrepreneurship is paved with challenges, triumphs, and moments of profound growth. Through authenticity, humility, and a relentless pursuit of excellence, we can all aspire to build brands that not only thrive but inspire others to do the same.

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We invite you to tune in to our podcast episode for a deeper dive into the world of purpose-driven entrepreneurship, and discover the keys to building an authentic brand that leaves a lasting impact. Together, let's embark on a journey of self-discovery, growth, and transformation—one dish, one conversation, at a time.

Ready to Show Your Purpose?

Introduction:

As we delve into this week's episode, we're taking a step back from our traditional format to offer a heartfelt recap and life update. It's a throwback to our weekly recaps from 2023, where we celebrated milestones, shared insights, and connected with our audience on a deeper level. This time around, inspired by the wisdom shared in our recent conversation with Eloquent Pearlfection, I've dedicated this weekend to celebrating life and seeking balance amidst the hustle and bustle.

Commitment to Community - Embracing Empowerment:

One highlight was my official membership to the board of the Emerging Business Leaders group, a pivotal moment that underscores my commitment to supporting black-owned businesses and fostering growth within our community. The conversation with Dre, the owner of MeyeGurl LLC, further emphasized the significance of collaboration and resilience in pursuing our passions.

Navigating Transformation - Lessons in Goal Setting:

In our recent episode with Rachel "Eloquent Pearlfection" Jenkins, we delved into the theme of life transformation and the importance of setting and achieving goals. It's a reminder that while pursuing our dreams is exhilarating, finding balance and taking breaks are essential to prevent burnout and cultivate holistic fulfillment.

Embracing Purpose - Beyond Professional Success:

For me, this journey has been a revelation of sorts. While I'm passionate about the show and our entrepreneurial endeavors, I've come to realize that purpose extends beyond professional success. It resides in the connections we foster, the moments we cherish with loved ones, and the hobbies that bring us joy. It's about finding harmony in every aspect of life and striving to live authentically.

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Introduction:

🎙️ Welcome back to another riveting episode of Thinker vs. Speaker, where we delve into the minds and stories of inspiring individuals. This week, I'm thrilled to sit down with the remarkable poet, Rachel "Eloquent Pearlfection" Jenkins, for her second appearance on the show.

A 2023 Recap: From Podcasts to Festivals, Rachel's Journey:

We kick off the episode by catching up with Rachel, who graciously shares her journey through 2023. It's been a year of multiple podcast appearances, a cameo in a music video, and live performances, including a memorable spot at a women's festival. Rachel's artistic journey reflects the power of planning, practice, and a commitment to showing up as the best version of herself in every space.

Setting Goals and Unexpected Success:

Reflecting on her goals at the beginning of 2023, Rachel opens up about aiming to elevate her work and get her name out there. Little did she expect the incredible influx of bookings and support that followed. The conversation unfolds into a celebration of gratitude for success and the unexpected rewards that come with genuine passion and dedication.

Challenging Creativity at the Women's Festival:

A highlight of Rachel's year was participating in a women's festival, where she embraced the challenge of performing on a larger scale. We explore the transformative power of trying new things, utilizing different resources, and sharing the stage with numerous talented individuals. Rachel's experience becomes a testament to the inspiring feeling that comes from creative collaboration.

Passion, Confidence, and Continuous Improvement:

Our dialogue shifts to the essence of having a passion that demands continual improvement. We explore finding confidence in one's craft, appreciating art without fostering competition, and the beautiful journey of personal growth through creative expression.

Navigating the Landscape of Goal-Setting:

As the conversation deepens, we explore the intricacies of goal-setting and planning. I share personal experiences of skepticism turning into appreciation for tools like vision boards, emphasizing the importance of writing down goals and planning for success.

Celebrating Life in Your 20s - A Reflective Journey:

We take a reflective journey back to our 20s, where the comfort of celebrating life without a specific purpose sometimes led to a lack of direction. I share my personal struggle with losing ambition, leading to a profound realization that paved the way for intentional decision-making and personal growth.

Faith, Redirection, and Authentic Living:

The conversation takes a spiritual turn as we discuss Rachel's early exposure to the spotlight, drawing parallels with our church upbringings. We explore the intersection of faith and ego, learning to thrive without what holds us back, and the transformative power of authenticity.

Selective Living and Embracing Change:

Rachel shares her approach to celebrating accomplishments – a crucial step in the creative process involving relaxation and regrouping. We discuss the significance of getting selective about the people, places, and things in our lives, acknowledging that it can elevate our quality of life and draw us closer to those who support our authenticity.

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In this week's episode of Thinker vs. Speaker, Marissa the Thinker engages in a captivating conversation with Trey L Scott, Co-Founder of Emerging Business Leaders and owner of A&O Movers LLC. Join them as they delve into personal updates, holiday reflections, and the transformative experience of the Emerging Business Leaders Expo.

Holiday Reflections and Entrepreneurial Burnout:

The episode kicks off with Marissa and Trey catching up on their holiday experiences. While Marissa's holidays were peaceful, they sparked a discussion on spiritual warfare and burnout—issues many entrepreneurs face. The conversation emphasizes the importance of planning breaks and recharging batteries to avoid burnout that could potentially jeopardize a business or idea.

Emerging Business Leaders Expo Recap:

A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to recapping the Emerging Business Leaders Expo. Marissa shares her inspiring experience, surrounded by black-owned businesses, networking, and pushing her brand to new heights. Trey provides insights into the success of the Expo, accomplishing the goal of bringing together the community and fostering growth in a supportive space.

Positive Changes in St. Louis:

Transitioning to their hometown of St. Louis, Marissa and Trey discuss positive changes they observed during their visit. Despite the city's challenges, including a high crime rate, there's a noticeable shift with more businesses emerging and an overall improvement in the city's atmosphere. The conversation touches on personal experiences with gun violence and the commitment to creating positive change.

EBL's Impact and Future Plans:

The Emerging Business Leaders have identified opportunities for growth after the Expo, making them more organized and prepared for upcoming events. Trey announces Marissa's official addition to the EBL board, teasing exciting collaborations between Thinker vs. Speaker and EBL. They discuss upcoming events for 2024, including the introduction of "Cash Mobs" to support black-owned businesses during Black History Month.

Addressing Emotional Well-Being:

The conversation takes a poignant turn as Marissa and Trey discuss the emotional struggles faced by individuals in their communities. They highlight the need for accountability, emotional awareness, and workshops to help people recognize the support they may not even know they need.

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Welcome back to the Thinker vs Speaker podcast, where we dive deep into life's intricacies with a touch of inspiration. In this special episode, titled "You've Advanced! Player One: New Quest Unlocked," join our host, Marissa the Thinker, in an engaging visual conversation with Dre Dupree, the visionary CEO of MeyeGurl LLC.

Venturing Beyond - Dre's Cannabis Odyssey:

Dre Dupree takes us on a captivating journey as he expands his cannabis brand beyond boundaries. Join him as he hits the road, connecting with game changers in the industry and sharing powerful stories. Discover how Dre's personal health transformation became the driving force behind his mission to inspire others to embrace thriving lifestyles.

Mindfulness Practices - Unlocking Creativity:

In exploring the common thread between Marissa and Dre, we delve into the power of mindfulness practices. From meditation to journaling, learn how these practices unlocked new levels of creativity and self-discovery, becoming the catalysts for their successful ventures and balanced lives.

Courage Beyond Comfort - Embracing Authenticity:

Dive deep into the courage it takes to step outside comfort zones and embrace authenticity despite societal challenges. Marissa and Dre share personal experiences of overcoming ostracization and discuss the importance of going beyond ego to find genuine support.

Gratitude, Acceptance, and Trust - Keys to a Fulfilling Life:

Discover the transformative power of gratitude, acceptance, and trusting the journey. Marissa and Dre reflect on how these principles cultivate a fulfilling life, allowing acceptance of change, embracing uniqueness, and letting go of judgment.

Thriving Beyond Perfection - Maturing and Choosing Happiness:

Learn the valuable lesson of choosing what's worth working for as Marissa and Dre discuss breaking generational curses, escaping survival mode, and creating a life that not only allows them to thrive but uplifts their communities.

Inspire Your Journey - Reflections and Transformations:

This episode serves as a beacon of inspiration for those seeking to step outside their comfort zones, reflect on their journey, and find the courage to create a life that brings lasting happiness and peace.

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Hey, Thinkers! 🌟 Marissa the Thinker here, inviting you to embark on a captivating journey of growth, self-discovery, and creating safe spaces with the remarkable Christie Holland. In this podcast episode, "Getting Gutted," we dive deep into Christie's inspiring story, her wellness brand, Gutted Fitness, and the holistic haven she's crafted at the Zone.

Gutted Fitness - Beyond Wellness, a Sanctuary for Transformation:

Christie's journey unfolds from St. Louis to Texas and Washington D.C., a path marked by challenges, healing, and a powerful return to her roots. Together, we explore the profound impact of environment on personal development and ask the poignant question: Can one truly grow in place? 🌍

From Darkness to Renovation - The Birth of Gutted Fitness:

In a raw and honest conversation, Christie shares the transformative process that birthed Gutted Fitness. Much like a renovation, she faced dark spaces within herself, shedding old conditioning, embracing discomfort, and discovering the continual process of self-renewal. 💪

Rediscovering Passions and the Holistic Haven - Welcome to the Zone:

Christie's college journey in anthropology became a catalyst for change. We delve into the importance of pursuing passions, especially those dismissed in childhood. The Zone, her brainchild, transcends the typical gym experience, offering a holistic approach to well-being that addresses both the physical and the mental. 🧘‍♂️

Trusting Inner Guidance - Navigating the Spiritual Growth Terrain:

In a candid moment, Christie and I explore the intricate terrain of trusting our inner guidance. Learn how therapy and self-discovery guided my path, while Christie found inspiration in a book, navigating motivations, and building confidence in decision-making. 📚

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Tune in to this thought-provoking conversation that touches on growth, healing, challenging the ego, and finding safe spaces to come into your own. Can you relate to the journey of being called to grow? We'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences! 🌈

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Embracing Change and Rediscovering Purpose

Yo, yo, yo! Marissa the Thinker is back, and 2024 is looking bright. Happy New Year to all you amazing folks out there. I hope your holidays were as fantastic as ever. Now, let's dive into some real talk about life, growth, and the never-ending journey to self-discovery.

As many of you know, I took a bit of a break recently. Why? Well, life happened. I hit a phase where success and results were pouring in, but my motivation took an unexpected detour. It was a struggle, a battle with my own why – a challenge to rediscover it.

But guess what? We're back, stronger and more determined than ever. Why? Because I love what I do. I love these conversations, the people, the growth. "Thinker vs. Speaker" isn't just a podcast; it's a journey of self-exploration.

Never Giving Up, Just Picking Up Where You Left Off

Let's talk about a crucial theme from my recent episode: "Never giving up and picking up where you left off." We all face moments where our motivation wavers, where life throws unexpected challenges. It's okay to hit pause, recalibrate, and return stronger.

I shared a personal story from my past – the high school salutatorian journey. It taught me that sometimes we settle for less when we could achieve more with a bit more effort. Life is full of unexpected twists, but it's how we navigate them that defines our journey.

Taking Breaks and Rediscovering Self:

Life demands our attention, and sometimes we need to take breaks. Not to quit, but to recharge. I've learned the importance of going silent, not because I'm giving up, but because I'm pouring into myself. I'm learning who I am in this moment, embracing the changes, and evolving.

Vision Boards and New Beginnings:

New year, new goals! Vision boards have become my ritual. They're not just a collection of images; they're my aspirations manifest. I finished mine at the stroke of midnight on New Year's Eve – a ritual that worked wonders for me last year. If you want to dive into vision boards, hit me up!

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Unveiling the Layers of Self-Reflection:

In the latest episode of "Thinker vs Speaker," Marissa the Thinker sits down with producer and frequent collaborator Ashton "StonedVapor" Davy for a candid conversation that takes us back to the early days of the podcast. What begins as an impromptu dialogue after reflecting on a recent mass shooting event unfolds into a profound exploration of mental health, environment, and the quest for personal fulfillment.

Opening Up the Dialogue - The Importance of Therapy:

The episode kicks off with a shared emphasis on the importance of therapy and the value of having someone to talk to. Marissa and Ashton share their own experiences, highlighting how being open to therapy creates a safe space to discuss the thoughts and emotions often kept hidden.

Growing Up in Survival Mode - The Impact of Inner-City Environments:

Reflecting on their environments growing up, the duo delves into the negative mindsets cultivated in inner-city and underserved areas. Living in survival mode can create a mindset that resists contemplating alternative ways of life, leading to a loss of faith in oneself and surroundings.

The Domino Effect - From Crime Rates to Self Hate:

A critical point of discussion arises as they explore the connection between high crime rates and self-hate. Witnessing a common mindset where individuals feel they have nothing to lose fosters a culture of apathy. The question arises: "Why do some feel their lives are not valuable?

Taking Responsibility for Your Healing - A Call to Action:

The conversation takes a pivotal turn as Marissa and Ashton discuss the importance of taking responsibility for personal healing. They challenge listeners to assess their lives, ask the tough questions, and acknowledge what's within their control to create positive changes in their circumstances.

Soul Searching and Self-Reflection - The Keys to Fulfillment:

The episode encourages deep soul searching and self-reflection, prompting listeners to consider what they truly want from life and whether their current path aligns with those desires. Setting boundaries, changing environments, and learning one's needs are highlighted as crucial steps toward a more fulfilling life.

Did You Give Up? The Dangers of Settling for Less:

Closing with a poignant inquiry, the hosts ask if listeners are settling for a life that leaves them miserable. They challenge the notion of giving up on one's vision and emphasize the importance of believing in the possibility of living out the dreams buried deep within.

Inspiring Change and Personal Growth:

Introduction:

Welcome to "Healed for the Holidays: A Mental Health Rewind". Our month long series where we revisit some of our episodes dedicated to mental health. In this remastered episode, we embark on a profound journey into the heart of breaking stigmas surrounding mental health, revisiting the inaugural episode of Marissa the Thinker's solo exploration on Thinker vs. Speaker.

Unveiling the Layers with Kay Lucas:

Joining us for this insightful conversation is the incredible Ka’Cheena (Kay) Lucas, a seasoned social worker and therapist. Together, we unravel the societal beliefs and misconceptions that once hindered our progress on the path to mental wellness. We candidly share the circumstances that finally propelled us to take the courageous leap into therapy.

A Raw and Vulnerable Conversation:

In a moment of raw vulnerability, Kay courageously shares her personal battle with suicidal ideation, navigating the hesitancy to seek help, and the transformative journey towards securing a brighter future. (Note: Trigger warning this episodes contains references to thoughts of self-harm.)

Navigating Key Questions:

Throughout the episode, we delve into essential questions: What defines a good therapist? What criteria should one consider in their therapeutic journey? We emphasize the importance of creating a receptive headspace for the therapy process and discuss the distinctions between therapy and conversations with loved ones.

Reshaping Narratives, Mental Health in the Black Community:

Our aim is to reshape the narrative around mental health within the black community, shedding light on available resources and their life-changing impact. This episode underscores the significance of prioritizing mental health, recognizing that therapy may not be a universal solution but is a valuable resource for many.

Key Themes:

Key themes and keywords permeate our conversation, including accountability, self-reflection, mental health resources, healing trauma, breaking stigmas, overcoming obstacles, mental health crisis, trusting the process, self-love journeys, and releasing control. The underlying message resonates—there are options, and it's essential to value oneself enough to seek the help needed, fostering the necessary changes for a more fulfilling life.

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A Recap of the Emerging Business Leaders Expo:

In the heart of recent events, I'm thrilled to share the extraordinary journey post the Emerging Business Leaders Expo, an experience that transcended beyond networking—it became a catalyst for personal growth, empowerment, and the embodiment of Thinker vs. Speaker's mission: "Giving a Voice to Every Story."

Embracing Community and Collaboration:

The Expo wasn't just an opportunity to showcase Thinker vs. Speaker but a collaborative venture with family, Passion and Purpose Candles, and the inspiring Emerging Business Leaders. Together, we navigated the vibrant landscape of the event, forging connections that echoed the spirit of unity within the entrepreneurial community.

Networking Beyond Boundaries:

The Expo provided a platform to connect with like-minded entrepreneurs, amplifying the voices of those who, like me, are navigating the intricate paths of self-discovery and business ownership. The stories shared and the businesses highlighted underscored the essence of "Giving a Voice to Every Story."

A Full Circle Transformation:

What makes this Expo truly remarkable is its transformative power. It served as a full circle moment, allowing me to confront fears, dispel insecurities, and rewrite my inner narrative. The growth experienced during this process became a testimony to the potential we all carry within.

Spolight on Passion and Purpose Candles and More:

A special nod goes to Passion and Purpose Candles and More, a black-owned, family-operated business that not only sponsored this episode but played a pivotal role in making the Expo a success. Their commitment to donating a portion of each purchase to Alzheimer's and Dementia charities adds a beautiful layer to the collaboration—proof that business can be both purposeful and impactful.

Motivation For Your Journey:

Introduction:

In the heart of "Thinker vs. Speaker," a podcast dedicated to open, thought-provoking conversations, we're embarking on a new adventure. We're diving deep into the archives, dusting off an old gem, and offering it a fresh perspective. Welcome to "The Right Sauce - Mustard Seed Edition," a special two-part episode that promises to be a transformative experience.

Preparing for the Expo and More:

In the world of podcasts, preparation is key, and this episode serves as a prelude to the upcoming Emerging Business Leaders expo. Our host and creator, Marissa the Thinker, will be taking part in a panel, hosting a giveaway, and presenting the podcast's offerings at a table. But before all that, it's time to revisit and rekindle a conversation that's close to the heart.

Our show is proudly sponsored by Passion and Purpose Candles, a family-run company with a mission. These beautifully crafted candles not only brighten your space but also support the Alzheimer’s and Dementia foundation. The driving force behind these candles is the personal experience of dealing with a family member diagnosed with dementia.

Reflecting on "The Right Sauce":

"The Right Sauce" episode, featuring Marissa's uncle Jerry, takes center stage. The episode explores Marissa's state of mind during its recording, the motivation behind choosing her uncle for this conversation, and the theme of embracing one's calling instead of running from it.

Overcoming Adversity:

This episode dives deep into understanding life's trials and the predatory nature of leadership. It emphasizes the importance of divine timing, discusses overcoming a lack of motivation, and explores how finding one's passion and courage can help face challenges with resilience.

Critical Thinking:

We explore the value of forming one's own opinions, staying true to oneself, and creating a safe space for open conversations that foster growth and healing.

Building On Your Faith:

The episode touches on finding courage in faith, especially during challenging times. It highlights the significance of even the smallest amount of optimism, often likened to a mustard seed. The hosts share personal experiences of growth, reflection, and the importance of not giving up when faced with uncertainty.

Embracing Change:

The conversation delves into the power of redirection, the difference between temporary comforts and soul fulfillment, and the necessity of taking time to heal and grow, even when it feels intimidating.

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Introduction:

In our latest episode of "Thinker vs. Speaker," we turn the spotlight on a group of remarkable individuals who are making a significant impact in their community. The "Emerging Business Leaders" is a collective of young black entrepreneurs who have come together with a shared vision: to uplift their community, provide resources, and create opportunities for all.

A Vision Born from Experience:

Trey Scott and Dominick Tice, co-founders of the Emerging Business Leaders, shared their stories of starting their own businesses and recognizing the need for business development and community engagement. This realization was deeply rooted in their experiences growing up in their respective communities, where they identified the urgent need for positive change.

Ending Gun Violence | A Community Endeavor:

One of the group's notable initiatives is their dedication to ending gun violence. Through pop-out sessions and rallies, they bring their community together to address this pressing issue. In our episode, the Emerging Business Leaders describe the profound impact of these events, emphasizing how humbling it is to see the community come together to support their mission.

Inclusivity and Professionalism:

The Emerging Business Leaders were founded on the principle of serving everyone, regardless of age, race, or financial status. Their goal is to help those who want help but have difficulty accessing the resources they need. In addition, the group is committed to changing the narrative around young black entrepreneurs, upholding professionalism, and setting high standards for themselves.

The Birth of the Emerging Business Leaders Expo:

The Emerging Business Leaders' passion for community empowerment led to the creation of the "Emerging Business Leaders Expo." This event aims to provide affordable help and resources to aspiring entrepreneurs while offering a platform for businesses to promote themselves effectively. The expo is a place to learn from experts at no cost and a valuable opportunity for wise investments during the early stages of business development.

What to Expect from the Expo:

The Emerging Business Leaders are excited about the upcoming expo, and their enthusiasm is contagious. They look forward to helping youth and future entrepreneurs get a head start on their journeys. Building relationships and networking with like-minded individuals in the community is a key focus, as they want to enable people to take their connections into their own hands to grow their businesses.

This event isn't just for business owners; it's a community event for all to enjoy. It's an opportunity to bring the community together in a way St. Louis hasn't seen in decades, and it's a chance to witness how hard work pays off.

A Vision for the Future:

Introduction:

Welcome back, dear listeners! It's a moment we've all been waiting for – the return of "Thinker vs Speaker" podcast for Season 3. Marissa The Thinker is back, and this time, we're diving deep into the relentless "hustler's mentality." Join us as we question the societal pressures that urge us to keep grinding towards our goals and explore the profound effects it can have on our lives.

The Pressure to Prove:

In this opening episode, Marissa takes you on a journey through her personal experiences. She opens up about how the need to prove herself fueled her hustle. It's a raw and honest exploration of the drive that pushes us forward and the expectations we place upon ourselves.

Seeking Internal Validation Through Self-Reflection:

Discover the importance of self-reflection to find internal validation and fulfillment. In a world where external success is often glorified, Marissa encourages us to look within and seek validation from our own growth and progress.

The Pitfalls of Comparison:

Marissa delves into the pitfalls of constantly comparing oneself to peers. We explore how this relentless comparison can impact our mental well-being and hinder our personal and professional growth.

Redefining Success

Success is a term often defined by society's standards. In this episode, challenge your perception of success and consider what it means to you personally. Marissa invites you to redefine success on your terms.

Overcoming Pride and Ego

Pride and ego can dictate our actions and decisions. Marissa discusses the ways in which these forces can hold us back and provides valuable insights on how to break free from their grip.

Embracing Your Journey

One of the key takeaways from this episode is learning how to let go and allow results to happen in their own time, aligned with your personal growth. It's a lesson in patience, perseverance, and the art of embracing the journey.

The Essence of Thinker vs. Speaker

Marissa reiterates her passion for the podcast, emphasizing that it's driven not by ego but by a genuine love for meaningful conversations and positive impact. This podcast isn't just about talking; it's about making a difference in the lives of its listeners.

The Upcoming Emerging Business Leaders Expo in St. Louis

Exciting news for our audience in St. Louis, Missouri! The Emerging Business Leaders Expo is quickly coming upon us. On November 4th, we're going to put it all out on the table, literally. This event will feature valuable resources for both new and existing entrepreneurs, making it a must-visit for anyone interested in business ventures. Marissa encourages everyone to explore emergingbusinessleaders.org for support and resources.

Stay Connected

To stay updated on all things Thinker vs Speaker, be sure to visit thinkervsspeaker.com. Our website serves as a hub for social media links, old episodes, new releases, and much more. Stay in the loop with our engaging content and discussions.

Get Involved

Are you interested in sponsoring the podcast or becoming a guest on a future episode? Marissa welcomes your involvement. You can easily reach out to her through the website. Your unique perspective and ideas could be the next great conversation on Thinker vs Speaker.

Gratitude for the Audience

Marissa expresses her heartfelt gratitude to the listeners. You've been a constant source of motivation and encouragement. Your unwavering support keeps her going and fuels her passion for creating impactful content.

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Hey there, Thinker vs. Speaker community! It's Marissa the Thinker, your host, and friend. I wanted to sit down with you today in this special video to have a heart-to-heart conversation. If you've been following our podcast journey, you know that we've been on an incredible ride, exploring life's most meaningful topics with amazing guests. But today, I have an important announcement to make about taking a break from our regular podcast episodes. Please, join me as I explain why this break is not only necessary but also an opportunity to enhance our Thinker vs. Speaker experience.

Reflecting on the Journey:

Over the past year, Thinker vs. Speaker has grown and evolved. We've delved into diverse and thought-provoking subjects, bringing you real conversations about life, love, mental health, and more. It's been a healing journey for me personally, and I've grown along with the show.

The Decision to Work Smarter:

I've been working tirelessly to keep the show going, but I realized that it's time to shift from working harder to working smarter. This break is about regrouping, refocusing, and finding ways to improve our content and community engagement.

Supporting Our Partners:

We've been fortunate to work with some fantastic sponsors and collaborators. Taking this break allows me to show up as my best self for them, ensuring that Thinker vs. Speaker continues to thrive.

Key Themes:

In this video, Marissa the Thinker touches on several key themes. She emphasizes the importance of self-care and taking a break to recharge. Marissa acknowledges the need to shift from working tirelessly to working smarter for the podcast's improvement. Her journey with Thinker vs. Speaker has been a catalyst for personal growth and commitment to delivering exceptional content. She invites the audience to engage with past episodes and the podcast's community. Ultimately, her message highlights the significance of choosing oneself and not being overly concerned with others' perceptions, aligning with the themes of personal development and self-improvement central to her podcast.

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Welcome to a heartwarming episode of Thinker vs. Speaker! In "Igniting Dreams," we are thrilled to unveil a remarkable partnership and the official launch of Passion and Purpose Candles and More. Join me and my parents, Marvin and Valerie, the passionate minds behind this inspiring venture, as we embark on a journey of transformation and purpose. 🕯️✨

Fueling Passion and Purpose:

Our conversation begins with Valerie sharing the story of what led her to the world of candle making and how embracing new experiences and reevaluating priorities became the catalyst for her creative journey. We explore the power of stepping outside of our comfort zones and finding happiness in pursuing our passions.

Remembering Grandfather's Legacy:

We pay tribute to Valerie's father, my grandfather, an eccentric handyman whose love for unique DIY projects inspired us all. We reflect on the impact of his battle with dementia, which led to a commitment to donate a portion of Passion and Purpose Candles' proceeds to charities supporting families affected by Alzheimer's and Dementia. We emphasize the importance of creating lasting memories and the value of spending time together as a family.

Breaking the Silence on Alzheimer's and Dementia:

Our discussion takes a poignant turn as we shine a light on the often-silent struggles of families dealing with Alzheimer's and dementia. We stand united in our commitment to destigmatize these challenges and create a safe space for open conversations. Together, we encourage the importance of finding support, understanding, and community during difficult times.

Support in Entrepreneurship:

of entrepreneurship and black-owned businesses. Marvin and Valerie share insights on fostering a nurturing community for black entrepreneurs, breaking down barriers, and collaborating to uplift one another. We delve into the empowering journey of embracing individual talents and leveraging collective strength.

Key Themes:

Key themes of this episode include turning passion into purpose, embracing change, remembering loved ones, supporting families affected by Alzheimer's and Dementia, breaking stigmas, fostering entrepreneurship within the black community, and the power of collaboration and community.

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Welcome to another engaging episode of Thinker vs. Speaker! In "Stepping Stones," we embark on an exciting journey, unveiling a groundbreaking partnership and introducing our brand-new website, www.thinkervsspeaker.com. Join Marissa the Thinker and special guest Chris Perry, CEO of Perry Web Design, as they redefine the Thinker vs Speaker experience. 🎙️🚀

The Journey to Web Design:

Our conversation begins by delving into Chris's inspiring journey from following his heart to becoming a website creator extraordinaire. We explore the pivotal moments that shaped his path, highlighting the significance of pursuing your passions and experiencing personal growth.

Building Robust Networks:

But that's just the beginning! We dive into the importance of creating strong networks that foster both friendly competition and unwavering support among peers. Chris and Marissa discuss leveraging the strengths of others to fuel collective growth and success.

Embracing Change and Finding Purpose:

"Stepping Stones" goes further as we emphasize the value of embracing change and discovering your unique path and purpose in life. We explore the importance of changing habits as you grow, having patience with yourself, and embracing the journey of life and its transformative changes.

Key Themes:

Big themes of this episode include networking, healthy competition, personal growth, embracing change, and discovering your life's purpose. Together, we illuminate the stepping stones that lead to success, emphasizing the importance of collaboration, self-discovery, and continuous evolution.

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Welcome to a compelling episode of Thinker vs. Speaker! In "At Your Best," we engage in a profound conversation on self-awareness, accountability, and the intricate dynamics of relationships. Join me as I'm joined by the exceptional Brandy Yates, a visionary life and relationship coach, and CEO of Conquering Relationships LLC. 🎙️💖

The Journey to Coaching:

Our conversation kicks off with Brandy sharing her journey into becoming a life and relationship coach, distinguishing her role from being the friend with good advice. We explore the importance of setting boundaries and how it helps align her with those truly seeking assistance.

The Power of Accountability:

As we delve deeper, Brandy emphasizes themes of accountability and personal development as keys to regaining control of our lives. Together, we uncover the transformative power of self-love, forgiveness, and how these elements guide us toward self-discovery and empowerment.

Redefining Relationship Goals:

But our exploration doesn't stop there. We turn our focus to the notion of "relationship goals" and challenge the ideals imposed by external influences, social media, and popular culture. Who gets to define what your relationship should look like? We dissect unrealistic expectations and offer fresh perspectives on navigating relationships in our fast-paced age.

Key Themes:

In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of self-awareness and self-love, emphasizing their role in personal growth and relationship dynamics. Accountability and continuous personal development are highlighted as crucial for taking control of one's life. Additionally, we challenge conventional relationship norms, exploring the influence of external factors on our expectations and connections.

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Welcome to an enlightening episode of Thinker vs. Speaker! In "Growth and Evolution," we're joined by the insightful Ashton "StonedVapor" Davy, a recurring guest and music producer extraordinaire. 🎙️🎶 Join us as we embark on a profound journey of personal transformation, leaving behind the past, and finding empathy in the present.

Leaving the Past Behind:

Our conversation commences with reflections on a past episode, "Special St. Paul," where we delved into the realities of growing up in St. Louis, MO. We explore the challenges of navigating environments that thrust us into survival mode at an early age and the coping mechanisms that accompany such experiences. Ashton opens up about his strained relationship with his father, a catalyst for emotional growth.

Navigating New Spaces:

The heart of this episode revolves around the theme of growth and evolution. Ashton shares his unique perspective on embracing change – from environments to mindsets. We discuss the transformative journey of adapting to new spaces and mindsets, embracing the unfamiliar, and learning to let go of what is beyond our control.

The Power of Empathy:

A pivotal moment arises when we delve into the profound concept of empathy. We examine the importance of understanding ourselves and extending that understanding to others on diverse paths of growth. Ashton's journey sparks meaningful conversations about the struggles of change and the importance of supporting one another.

Key Themes:

Big themes of this episode include personal growth and transformation, embracing change, releasing the past, and finding peace with the uncontrollable. We also explore the vital concept of empathy – both self-compassion and extending understanding to others on diverse paths of growth.

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Welcome to an exciting episode of Thinker vs. Speaker! In "Speechless," we're joined by the remarkable Keara "Key" Okolo, our networking liaison extraordinaire. Join us as we unravel the art of networking, the importance of self-value, and the journey of navigating life's challenges with grace.

Mastering the Art of Networking:

Marissa's preparation for the Emerging Business Leaders Expo prompts a deeper look at the world of networking. Overcoming personal fears and challenges becomes the focus as we turn to Key for advice. She shares insights on breaking the ice in conversations and shifting our mindset when approaching networking opportunities.

The Path to Self-Development:

Our conversation ventures into the realm of self-development, covering topics like conquering fears, boosting confidence, and embracing self-acceptance. We delve into the transformative power of self-love and purpose, propelling us beyond our comfort zones to reach our full potential.

Defining Your Value:

A pivotal moment in the episode emerges as we question the true meaning of value, leaving Key momentarily "speechless." We explore the significance of having the confidence to define value for ourselves, taking control of our lives by prioritizing what truly matters. Faith becomes the thread that weaves it all together.

Navigating Life's Challenges:

As Key navigates her career's upward journey amid challenges, we reflect on finding inner strength during turbulent times. We discuss the art of embracing the unknown with faith, knowing that we possess the wisdom and grace to rise above adversity.

Key Themes:

Big themes of this episode include networking mastery, self-development, defining personal value, navigating life's challenges with faith, and embracing the transformative power of self-love and purpose. Together, we uncover the keys to building meaningful connections, boosting confidence, and gracefully surmounting adversity while staying true to our authentic selves.

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Prepare for a profoundly moving episode of Thinker vs. Speaker as we invite the gifted poet, Rachel, known as "Eloquent Pearlfection," to take us on a poetic journey of self-discovery and purpose. 🎙️💫 In this captivating conversation, we dive into Rachel's poetic world, exploring the origins of her passion, the sparks of creativity, and her captivating performances that inspire.

The Power of Poetry:

Rachel's poetic journey began with a transformative encounter during her school years, where a visiting poet gifted her a pen and journal. What started as a form of self-expression blossomed into a talent that touches hearts and inspires others. We journey through her story, from that fateful pen and journal to a beautiful moment of passing on the gift to an aspiring poet at her very first headline performance.

Finding Self and Purpose:

Our conversation takes a profound turn as we delve into the importance of self-awareness and its role in shaping a life filled with happiness and fulfillment. Rachel's insights illuminate the path to true authenticity, emphasizing the freedom that comes from shedding the need to please others. We explore the challenges and rewards of sharing your talents with the world and the inner confidence and motivation required to do so.

Discovering True Authenticity:

Rachel's journey is not just about poetry; it's a journey inward toward self-discovery. We uncover the empowering process of embracing one's true self, overcoming the desire to people-please, and prioritizing personal happiness and fulfillment. Self-awareness becomes the guiding light on the road to authenticity.

Key Themes:

Big themes explored in this episode encompass self-discovery, self-awareness, the liberating journey to authenticity, the power of creative expression through poetry, and the importance of prioritizing personal happiness and fulfillment. Together, we embark on a transformative exploration, shedding the need to people-please and embracing the path to genuine self-expression and purpose.

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Prepare for an exhilarating episode of Thinker vs. Speaker as we embark on a profound exploration of education with Dr. Precious Hardy, an esteemed educational psychologist. In this thought-provoking conversation, we delve deep into a range of crucial topics, from the profound impact of Dr. Hardy's upbringing in East St. Louis to the powerful concepts of learned helplessness, critical thinking, and a comprehensive examination of the educational system.

Pride in East St. Louis:

Dr. Hardy begins by expressing her immense pride in her hometown of East St. Louis, IL—a city with a complex racial history that continues to grapple with economic challenges. She provides a candid look at the realities of life there, including living below the poverty line and facing food deserts, a theme we explored in a previous episode with Shanell.

The Question Looming Large:

Our conversation takes a significant turn as we delve into a pivotal theme that resonates throughout the episode: "What happened to the black community?" We navigate the dramatic cultural shift from a quest for higher knowledge and education to our current state, where these pursuits have sometimes become taboo. We dissect our representation in popular culture and tackle more significant themes like learned helplessness, self-image improvement, the influence of external factors, and actionable steps toward progress.

Research for Change:

Dr. Hardy shares insights into her research and how it contributes to addressing these complex issues, particularly within our education systems. Her work aims to uncover answers and solutions that can shape a brighter future for education and the communities it serves.

Key Themes:

Big themes explored in this episode encompass learned helplessness, critical thinking, the state of education, the impact of upbringing in urban environments, and the pursuit of self-improvement. Dr. Precious Hardy's personal journey and research shed light on these complex topics, providing insights into the challenges faced by communities and the transformative potential of education. Join us as we unravel the layers of these important themes and seek to inspire change and growth.

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Welcome to another insightful episode of Thinker vs. Speaker! In this captivating conversation, we have the pleasure of sitting down with Shanell, better known as "@the.urbansunflower," a talented digital creator who passionately shares her journey into the world of gardening, homesteading, and self-sufficiency. Join us as we explore Shanell's inspiring story and her mission to inspire positive change in our communities.

From Hobby to Necessity:

Shanell's gardening journey began as a simple hobby during the pandemic. She noticed a significant decline in the quality of produce and fresh foods available in her area, sparking her passion for gardening. Our discussion takes us on a deep dive into the critical issue of food access and the challenges faced by those living in food deserts. We shed light on what food deserts are and the innovative measures being taken to provide equitable access to fresh, healthy foods. Discover how social media resources, homesteading, and local farmer's markets are making a difference.

Empowering Self-Sufficiency:

The conversation expands to explore the path to self-sufficiency and the pursuit of true happiness in the face of burnout and societal pressures. We challenge conventional norms and encourage listeners to envision a life where money is not the primary driving force. Shanell's journey serves as an inspiration to embrace authenticity and pursue passions unapologetically.

The Power of Content Creation:

As we dig deeper into Shanell's story, we uncover how she ventured into content creation and how her platform is used to uplift and inspire others on similar journeys. Her authentic storytelling resonates with a wide audience, sparking change and lifting spirits.

Key Themes:

Big themes of this episode include food access, gardening, self-sufficiency, pursuing true happiness, and the power of content creation for inspiration. Together, we delve into these topics, gaining insights and inspiration for our own journeys.

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Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Thinker vs. Speaker! In this week's episode, titled "God Ain't Say That," we embark on a profound journey into the heart of genuine leadership, guided by our special guest, Trey, the owner of A&O Movers. 

The Art of Leadership Unveiled:

Join us as we delve into the core principles of exceptional leadership. Together with Trey, we explore essential qualities such as knowing when to step back and allow others to lend a helping hand, steering clear of micro-managing, and learning to trust and value the opinions of those we work with.

Empowering Teams and Embracing the Bigger Picture:

Our conversation uncovers the art of empowering our teams and keeping the bigger picture at the forefront of our endeavors. We delve into the significance of fostering growth within our communities, breaking generational curses, and uplifting those around us.

Spiritual Guidance and Forward Progression:

This episode takes a spiritual turn as we discuss the importance of learning to walk in faith. We share insights on understanding when God is speaking to us or guiding us in a different direction, always with the ultimate goal of forward progression and community upliftment.

Key Themes:

Big themes of this episode include leadership, operating in faith, breaking generational curses, entrepreneurship, mentorship, and more. Together, we uncover the secrets to becoming a remarkable leader who inspires, uplifts, and fosters growth within their team.

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Welcome to another inspiring episode of Thinker vs. Speaker! In this episode, we dive deep into the incredible journey of our recurring guest, Ashton "StonedVapor" Davy. Join us as we uncover the remarkable story of Ashton's resilience, determination, and the power of hustle and heart.

Early Battles and Inner Strength:

Ashton takes us on a journey through his childhood, growing up in the inner cities of St. Louis with a rare heart condition. Despite the challenges, he found a way to make the most of his early years, demonstrating unwavering determination from a young age.

The Changing Landscape of Public Schools:

As we delve deeper into the conversation, we reflect on the changes in our city's public school system. We discuss how the quality of education and the personal investment that teachers once had in students' futures have declined over the years. This shift sparks questions about its impact on our community and the potential correlation with the rise in black-on-black crime.

Pursuit of Education and Musical Talent:

Once he had the opportunity to attend school, Ashton seized it with both hands, striving for higher education and honing his musical talents, particularly in the realm of music through his involvement in the school band. His dedication earned him a coveted spot on an HBCU drumline while still in high school.

The Full Sail University Experience:

Our conversation then shifts to Ashton's pursuit of higher education and his music degree journey at Full Sail University. He shares the personal sacrifices and risks he undertook to make his dreams a reality, highlighting the dedication and passion that fueled his success.

Navigating the Future:

Ashton opens up about the transitional period in his life, where he faced choices about which endeavors to pursue. He provides insights into overcoming procrastination, battling overthinking, and finding the courage to chart his own path toward a brighter future.

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Welcome back to another inspiring episode of Thinker vs. Speaker! We're thrilled to have the incredible Keara Okolo, affectionately known as Key, back on the show for her much-awaited follow-up episode. Join us as we catch up on her journey since her remarkable journey through the Miss Missouri pageant and delve into some profound life lessons. 

Blossoming in Faith and Self-Discovery:

Key kicks off the episode with boundless enthusiasm, sharing her elation after the Miss Missouri pageant. We dive deep into a conversation about entering a season in life where the seeds of faith we've sown begin to bear fruit. It's a moment of reaping the benefits of stepping outside our comfort zones, falling in love with life's journey, and shedding old mindsets to welcome new and positive experiences for growth and elevation.

Pageant Insights and Personal Validation:

Our conversation turns to the Miss Missouri pageant itself, where Key's growth was on full display. She shares the profound sense of personal validation that came from the hard work she's invested in herself and her participation in these transformative events. We explore the invaluable benefits of conquering fears, gaining confidence through self-love, and discovering what makes us special and unique.

Faith, Self-Love, and Illuminating the World:

Prepare to be inspired as we explore the significance of achieving internal validation and the impact of relying on external validation. We'll uncover the beautiful connection between self-love and confidence, and the transformative power of becoming a beacon of light in the world.

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Welcome to a special episode of Thinker vs. Speaker, where we take you on a captivating journey through the streets of St. Louis, a city close to our hearts. In this episode, I'm joined by my dad, Marvin, and Ashton, who are no strangers to our show. Together, we explore the urban transformations and personal experiences that have shaped our lives in this vibrant city.

Growing Up in St. Louis: A Personal Tale:

My dad kicks off the conversation by sharing his childhood experiences growing up in the projects of St. Louis during the 1970s. He vividly paints a picture of how his family's move to the North Side of the city marked a significant shift in his life. It's a story of resilience, adaptation, and the enduring spirit of our community.

The Changing Landscape of Public Schools:

As we delve deeper into the conversation, we reflect on the changes in our city's public school system. We discuss how the quality of education and the personal investment that teachers once had in students' futures have declined over the years. This shift sparks questions about its impact on our community and the potential correlation with the rise in black-on-black crime.

Surviving the Silent Rules and Codes:

Our discussion takes a thought-provoking turn as we liken the experience of growing up in some neighborhoods to living in a jail or jungle. We explore the unwritten rules and codes one must navigate to survive, shedding light on the lack of emotional security and guidance that may contribute to these challenges.

Celebrating St. Louis' Hidden Gems:

Amidst the challenges, we make sure to highlight the incredible talent that hails from our city. From talented artists and athletes to modern-day heroes working tirelessly in our communities, there's no shortage of greatness in St. Louis. Our city is a wellspring of potential and resilience.

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